I don't often see lists like the below. It's nothing 'amazing', but maybe the world needs less of the profound and more of the generous and/or simply kind. Because of this, something like Arvind Devalia's list of 29 Acts of Random Kindness (he calls it part of our Personal Social Responsibility, nice) is, I believe, worth checking out every now and then (my comments in bold).
- Send someone a hand written note of thanks.
- Make a card at home and send it to a friend for no reason.
- Buy a lottery ticket for a stranger (interesting!)
- Put some coins in someone else’s parking meter (good one! except in Malaysia people might take you for a hustler...)
- Buy a coffee for the man on the high street selling The Big Issue magazine.
- Cut your neighbour’s hedge. (not much of these where I stay...we only have lifts, corridors, gates, etc.)
- Walk your friend’s dog.
- Give a compliment about your waiter / waitress to his / her manager.
- Send someone a small gift anonymously.
- Stop and help someone replace their flat tyre.
- Let someone jump the queue at the bank.
- Pay for the drinks on the next table at a café.
- Treat a friend to the movies for no reason. (not so straight-forward, eh?)
- Give a huge tip to someone when they least expect it.
- Hold the train door open for someone rushing to get in.
- Give up your seat for someone, not just an elderly person.
- Write notes of appreciation at least once a week.
- Talk to a homeless person and have a “normal” conversation.
- Pick up some rubbish in the road which would otherwise be lying around.
- Compliment a work colleague for their excellence.
- Recommend a competitor to a potential client. (hmm...)
- Give another driver your parking spot.
- Give a piece of fruit to a delivery person.
- Help an elderly neighbour carry the rubbish out.
- Tell all your family members how much your appreciate them.
- Leave a copy of an interesting book on a train / bus. (ah-hahh!)
- Buy an inspirational book for a friend. (I do this!)
- Send a thank you note to a person who has helped you in the past.
- Smile a lot.
Posted at 11:02 pm by alwynlau
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